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Hi Caroline

Last week our new neighbors had a barbeque.

They invited lots of people, some we knew and some of their old friends.
We all had a lot to drink!

Diane brought out a fruit bowl and asked all the men to put their keys in, then the women had to select a set of keys and do whatever they wanted to the man who owned them.

I stared at my husband and said ok! We are fairly open minded and thought it would be a laugh (We were very drunk at the time!). We all picked keys and paired off with the other husbands; I must admit I found it fun and so did my husband. Some of the couples had sex with their choices and then went back home to their husbands. The others just had a good old snogging session, it was really fun and I enjoyed myself a lot.

However, the next morning I realized the reality of it all and was very shocked at what I’d done (it’s amazing how a few drinks can make your morals slip!)

Now my neighbors have invited my husband and I around for drinks and mentioned a foursome. What do I do? I’m not sure that it’s for me and I’m not sure that I should be doing it, it was fun at the Barbeque but I felt so guilty afterwards. Is there a law against this and is this normal behavior.

Worried!

Oh dear, you've started something you may not be able to finish. Be careful.

So this new couple have come onto the scene and you're having a bit of fun with them, you decided to go along with their ideas and you did something you later regretted.

You know the score with them and if you go round for drinks, then you know they are going to try and have some fun just the four of you don't you? So you have to decide, is this what you both want? How do you feel about it? Is it ok for both of you? Are you happy with this arrangement?

If your answer is 'yes' then it's your choice what you do with your social life and who you spend it with. However, if you think no way then you have to decline their invitation and say; 'it's not for you thank you', but you'd like to remain friends. Only do things that you are happy and comfortable with (drinks or not)

Remember, when you start sharing your partner with other people jealousy and resentment start to emerge and it will all end in tears.

If you value your marriage then stop now before you get hurt!

Caroline
Agony Angel

This letter is taken from Caroline's world changing DVD where she shares her life coaching skills to help motivate you into achieving your goals and improve your life, along with a selection of letters that she receives each day as an agony aunt....
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	Four Play Hi Caroline Last week our new neighbors had a barbeque. They invited lots of people, some we knew and some of their old friends. We all had a lot to drink! Diane brought out a fruit bowl and asked all the men to put their keys in, then the women had to select a set of keys and do whatever they wanted to the man who owned them. I stared at my husband and said ok! We are fairly open minded and thought it would be a laugh (We were very drunk at the time!). We all picked keys and paired off with the other husbands; I must admit I found it fun and so did my husband. Some of the couples had sex with their choices and then went back home to their husbands. The others just had a good old snogging session, it was really fun and I enjoyed myself a lot. However, the next morning I realized the reality of it all and was very shocked at what I’d done (it’s amazing how a few drinks can make your morals slip!) Now my neighbors have invited my husband and I around for drinks and mentioned a foursome. What do I do? I’m not sure that it’s for me and I’m not sure that I should be doing it, it was fun at the Barbeque but I felt so guilty afterwards. Is there a law against this and is this normal behavior. Worried! Hi Oh dear, you've started something you may not be able to finish. Be careful. So this new couple have come onto the scene and you're having a bit of fun with them, you decided to go along with their ideas and you did something you later regretted. You know the score with them and if you go round for drinks, then you know they are going to try and have some fun just the four of you don't you? So you have to decide, is this what you both want? How do you feel about it? Is it ok for both of you? Are you happy with this arrangement? If your answer is 'yes' then it's your choice what you do with your social life and who you spend it with. However, if you think no way then you have to decline their invitation and say; 'it's not for you thank you', but you'd like to remain friends. Only do things that you are happy and comfortable with (drinks or not) Remember, when you start sharing your partner with other people jealousy and resentment start to emerge and it will all end in tears. If you value your marriage then stop now before you get hurt! Caroline Agony Angel This letter is taken from Caroline's world changing DVD where she shares her life coaching skills to help motivate you into achieving your goals and improve your life, along with a selection of letters that she receives each day as an agony aunt.... Buy the DVD This is your passport to survial in love, life and relationships.


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