Lucy Lastic

Hi Agony Angel

My friend is being a slut, She’s doing things with everyone and everywhere.

When we go out all she wants to do is go and find someone for a quickie and it doesn’t matter what or who they are!

They can be any age, she doesn’t care, she will meet someone in a bar or a pub and go out the back and have a quick shag.

She won’t take money or anything like that she just does it. It’s disgusting and I’m ashamed of her but I need her as my friend and want her to stop.

What can I do about it?

Thanks

Gail


Hi Gail

Your friend seems lonely, and she's out to find someone to have quick fun with, to make her feel wanted, and that's not a good idea. It will end in tears and maybe worse; she may catch something or she may meet the wrong person and it could be dangerous.

She has lost sight of what's right and wrong and you have to guide her. Try and get her to talk to you about whatever it is that makes her do these things. She has to see for herself that What she's doing is ruining her reputation and life.

Ask her how she would feel if you were sleeping around and what she would do to try and stop you?

Has she had bad relationships in the past that is making her so carefree and reckless?

Try to get her to slow down. Try and join a club together, so she can think about something else. rather than having this kind of life with anyone she can find for short-term fun, it's not a good way to be.

She needs to find someone, and I mean 'one', who can give her long-term love and attention, but while she is living this life, men will only see her and want her for one thing.Be supportive, be encouraging and when she slips, let her know!

Good Luck

Caroline

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