Tease

Hi Caroline

I work in an office with 5 guys and 4 girls we are all mature and some are married. However, we have noticed that some of the girls have started wearing really low cut tops and short skirts.

They flaunt around the office giggling and flirting with all the guys and it’s turning me on. When they talk to us they deliberately bend over to distract us in our work and then sit on our desks drinking tea at break time. We are all married men in here and it’s now becoming a distraction to us especially me.

We went out for a drink after work (the whole office) and I started to chat to Charlotte the really sexy one. I put my hand on her thigh and whispered in her ear what I’d like to do with her and she slapped me on the face much to the humor of all my colleagues.

I was mortified, she then went to flirt around with the other guys bending over and showing all her cleavage etc. Why is she acting like this? She’s obviously been showing everyone the green light for ages then when we make a move we get slapped.

It’s damaging my ego and I’m humiliated. Are they’re after a good time or are they just teasing us? If they don’t want attention then they shouldn’t flaunt it should they. What is the best way to tackle this situation?

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Hi

Oh dear, they are naughty aren't they! It's all in the name of fun, they don't realize what a mixed signals they are giving you. And it's getting them into trouble, as proved by their reaction to your advances.

If you're in relationship with someone else then looking is fine but don't make the mistake of taking the bait, because you'll be caught in their snare.

These girls know that they look good and are just testing the water to see how far they can go. It's an ego trip for them to see how much power they have over you. And maybe get a few free drinks in the process; once it gets too heavy they react with alarm.

Be as cool as possible towards them and go about your daily business. Make pleasant conversation and have a bit of fun, but know where to draw the line next time. Under no circumstance give any indication that you're interested, as they will play on it. Just act natural and see what happens. It should be Ok

These girls are better left alone because they are all 'flaunt and flirt', without wanting anything intimate; it's all ego, to see what damage or disruption they can cause and how they can control men.

These girls will find themselves in trouble if they're not careful and then they'll learn the hard way.

By the way, aren't you married? Shouldn't you be faithful? Keep it in your trousers!

Caroline
Agony Angel