So you want to know how you get pregnant?
Your menstrual cycle. each month usually two weeks after your period starts, you ovulate which meas you release an egg. The egg goes through the fallopian tubes to your uterus. If it is not fertilised ie penetrated by sperm, then you will have your next period as normal.
On ejeculation sperm swim up the fallopian tubes from the vagina in search of an egg. Normally sperm need to be release inside the vagina in order to reach the egg, however if sperm are near the opening of the vagina they very rarely can work their way to the egg, these slippery suckers can swim for England so dont take any chances.
Sperm can live inside you from up to 7 days, so you can get pregnant if you have sex several days prior to ovulation because sperm will be hanging around waiting to do their worst and enter the egg. An egg will survive upto 48 hours after ovulation so it is quite easy for you to get pregnant.
So, you are more likely to become pregnant in the middle two weeks of your cycle.
This is how it should happen, however, a woman can ovulate at any time and things like stress, your lifestyle and what you eat can change everything.
If you really don't want to be pregnant then you should always think about what kind of prevention you should be taking and using. Having a baby is the most wonderful thing in the world if you want one and your ready to become a parent, but if your not in a relationship that's secure and long term then doing the right thing to prevent pregnancy makes total sense.
A few questions and answers:
We had sex with our clothes on, could I be pregnant?
No. If you had sex in your jeans, shorts, underwear or bathing suit, there's no way you can be pregnant. Sperm can't swim through clothes and continue travelling into the vagina. Sperm can only swim in liquids like semen and vaginal fluid.
He came outside my vagina, could I be pregnant?
It's very unlikely. If the sperm were deposited very, very near the mouth of the vagina, there is a small chance it could make it inside. But this is very rare. If the sperm weren't close to the vagina (like on your thigh or near your bum) then the answers no. Those little guys just can't swim that far.
But, if his penis was inside your vagina at any time, then you could get pregnant. Guys don't always pull-out (the very unreliable withdrawal method!) fast enough and some sperm could be released inside your vagina. So don't have vaginal intercourse without using a condom or some other reliable form of birth control!
We had sex without using birth control, what do I do now?
If you had unprotected sex or your birth control failed (like the condom broke) you have two choices. You have up to 5 days from the time you had sex to get the morning-after-pill. Or you can wait and see if your period comes on time and get a pregnancy test if it doesn't.
Can I get pregnant during my period?
Yes, but it's very unlikely. Women do not ovulate during their period. However, eggs may live for 2 days and sperm may live for 5-7 days inside a woman's body. They could finally meet up during menstruation, but it's rare. Plus, menstrual blood can transmit HIV, so you should definitely practice safe sex during your period.
When will I know and how can I tell if I'm pregnant?
Wait until you miss a period. Once the egg and sperm hook-up, the fertilized egg still has to travel down to the uterus, which takes about a week. Often, the fertilized egg just keeps going and gets flushed out of your system with your menstrual cycle. It's not until the fertilized egg attaches itself to the uterus that you are officially pregnant. That's when your body starts making new hormones and responding. A pregnancy test won't be accurate until your period is due because it tests for pregnancy hormones.
Now just because you miss a period doesn't mean you're definitely pregnant. Many things can cause a period to be late, especially stress (like worrying about if your pregnant). Some other symptoms of pregnancy like nausea, tender breasts, high emotions are also signs that your period is coming! Some women don't get any symptoms except a missed period. So the only way to really know if you are pregnant is to get a pregnancy test.
What do I do if I think I could be pregnant?
Wait to see if you get your period and then get a pregnancy test. While you're waiting, try not to stress-out about it, since there's really not much you can do until your period is due. If your period is late or you think it might be late and you're not sure then get a pregnancy test. You can start with a home kit from the chemist, but we really recommend you go to a clinic because people do get the wrong results with home tests.
Once you miss a period, there's no reason to wait to get a pregnancy test. The sooner you know, the sooner you can either relax if you're not pregnant or start thinking about what you want to do next if you are pregnant.
The best advice I can give you on this is:
If you have any doubts go see your doctor or the family planning clinic.
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