Time to get it off your chest and let the world know how you are been treated by your lover. Do they wine and dine, love and romance you or do they take you for granted or have a roving eye. This is your opportunity to tell us how you feel.
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20 reasons my boyfriend is like no man I've ever known before. - from Selphie
1: He's generous and romantic. He cycled 94 miles in the frost last February to bring me flowers for valentines day. When he heard I was diabetic he ordered me special diabetic chocolates online. Before we got together, he "courted" me, to use his own words, despite the fact he had a rival for my affections. He brings me cute surprise gifts and takes me to the theatre and dinner and the movies. He gives money regularly to several different charities and is always lending people money yet seems to get it back, so isn't generous to a fault.
2: He has no ex girlfriends whatsoever for me to be jealous of! I was his first kiss, his first love, his first everything. I got to teach him all he knows, and didn't have to compete with his past lovers.
3: He's environmentally friendly: He cycles everywhere even though he has his driving licence. He recycles his rubbish. He gives £100 a year to Greenpeace even though he's an impoverished student. He wants to work for companies who provide environmentally friendly power when he completes his engineering degree.
4: He's smart. He's at uni, he actually reads intelligent fiction, he understands maths, he can read the electricity meter, he has fantastic general knowledge so any time I ask a question he can answer it, he loves debating on philosophy and ethics with me. He can fix my computer and likes politics.
5: He has good career prospects, from fantastic work experience, to a very good degree in the making, he's set to earn a decent wage, has a whole load of ambition, and wants to lead a fairly well off life and is prepared to work for it. He even wants the same type of house as me, decorated the same way.
6: He's good at being a traditional bloke....he prefers to pay when we're out, he'd love for me to be the home maker, he's great at practical things like saving me from spiders and gardening and carrying my heavy shopping and fixing light bulbs...
7: ...but he's also a New man. He's very sensitive, a fantastic
listener, sympathetic and warm hearted. He hates violence against women with a passion, loves to cook, and doesn't like football. We have literally sat awake all night on several occasions just talking all through the hours with some music on in the background. He has a wonderful witty sense of humour that isn't typically "laddish."
8: He's good to look at. Very tall. Wonderful smile. Big blue eyes. All those hours on his bike make him toned and slim, and healthy. He cares about his salt intake, and vitamins but not obsessively, and he's growing his hair just because I like it long. He knows he's cute, so he doesn't mope and get insecure, but neither is he arrogant. He doesn't smoke or take drugs. He's the perfect age at 22, a year older than me.
9: He isn't commitment phobic. He wants me to meet his family, who live in Ireland, at easter, and has invited me to his brothers wedding in summer, and although cautious, tells me that he would like for us to last, get married, buy a house, and have kids, if we continue being this in love. (He even said he loved me before I said it to him.)
10: He is utterly trustworthy. He has really firm morals for himself so would never, ever cheat on me, and somehow I can sense this is true. He has no interest in women other than me anyway, says he can only like one person at once, and actually only had one crush before me, on a girl from his high school who he liked for years devotedly even though they were only ever friends.
11: He shares my hobbies and interests, so we actually have a lot in common, can watch the same movies, lend each other books, laugh at the same jokes.
12: He doesn't rate physical appearance as the most important thing in the relationship, and finds me pretty even though I'm overweight and not that great to look at.
13: He really makes me feel loved, he's totally passionate about me, I can actually believe he loves me as much as I love him, so no paranoia and insecurity.
14: My friends and family love him.
15: He doesn't like violence, never gets into fights, and doesn't seem to lose his temper over anything; when he does he goes cold rather than into a rage. He would never ever hit anyone, except in self defence. The English gentleman type, but with a warm heart. He's wonderfully polite.
16: While he likes a beer, he hardly ever goes out drinking, prefers to stay in, so he isn't always off clubbing and acting "laddish". His mates are all geeks (I love geeks), that I get on well with, and he prefers to spend more time with me than them.
17: We have the same music taste, so we don't have to argue about what to play (the man even has a celine dion cd.)
18: He really, honestly isn't gay. I actually quite like it when my boyfriends are bi-sexual so I told him I'd like it if he was, but he really just isn't attracted to men.
19: He's my housemate, so we already live together! We started off as just friends who fancied each other, spent a year getting to know each other, and now we don't have to shell out for taxi fares or walk in the cold to get the last bus home in the middle of the night. He even has the only room with a double bed in the student-house, lucky for me when I stay in it with him!
20: Has delicious Irish accent! It was always my ambition to date an Irish man, and now I am.
I know, I know, too good to be true, right? I keep pinching myself to try and believe it. But it seems as if he's real....
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John treats me like a Princess! - from Jade
